TL;DR
The ick may be an instinctual reaction, but it doesn’t have to be an inevitable one. Brands seeking to avoid the ick must shift the dynamic from hunter/hunted to one of shared humanity.
Why it matters
The elusive ick is a guttural reaction to something that feels off, inauthentic, or threatening. It’s an experience that is deeply rooted in our evolutionary behavior: throughout human history we have relied on our animal instincts to make snap judgements about other people or situations in order to preserve our lives.
In the same way prey can instinctively sense when a predator has arrived on the scene, Gen Z is intuitively tuned to signals that they might be misled or manipulated. It makes sense why: brands have historically been notorious for exploiting customers’ insecurities and masking their true intentions in order to make a sale. Bumble showed their fangs in a recent campaign which gave women around the world a big ick due to their anti-celibacy rhetoric, which attempted to shame women who were taking a break from sex into re-downloading the apps.
The good news is that, despite our mammalian roots, the customer/brand dynamic doesn’t have to be this way. Try thinking of this relationship as a courting dynamic where you want to attract the most aligned partner and help them let their guard down. Whether by showing your fuzzy tummy or beautiful feathers rather than your sharp fangs, vulnerably displaying your unique strengths can prove mutual compatibility. After all, you’re interested in finding a lifetime partner rather than a one-time meal. Competitor app Feeld made a smart comeback to Bumble’s debacle, wheatpasting over the offending ad to show that they are “a special space where all journeys are welcome and valued”—regardless of how often you copulate.
One thing you can do right now
Drop language that positions your consumer as your prey and find new, humanizing words to use. Instead of “target users” or “capturing a market,” perhaps try “community” or “engaging an audience.”
Getting from a big ick to a customer click
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Avoid the 'pick me' trap. Take some time to reflect: is your brand showing up authentically? How can you participate in trends in a way that helps your beautiful, unique feathers shine rather than simply jumping on a bandwagon?
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Show the receipts. How are you supporting the causes Gen Z cares about that are related to your brand? Make it clear that you’re fighting for the same things, and prove that you’re not all talk.
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Don’t be fake. Older customers might fall for false advertising, but that’s not the way to create a trusting, long-lasting relationship with Gen Z. Curating a nest of shiny objects to woo a potential buyer is A-okay for longevity, straight up lying is not.